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After Work Bar
Gregoriouse The Great- Admin
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- Post n°26
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thats what happens when you kick butt so much!
Arcea-Drakkarre- Posts : 314
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Hahaha!!!! So true!! Ironically to your statement they broke while doing ninjitsu training.
Gregoriouse The Great- Admin
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see I knew it. lol
Arcea-Drakkarre- Posts : 314
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Hahaha...such a smart man. X3
Ckyle7- Admin
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- Post n°30
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I just had a *swear word* of a weekend.... Anyone wanna pour me a nice, cold pint?
Arcea-Drakkarre- Posts : 314
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- Post n°31
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I definitely would pour you one, hun!! I'm sorry your weekend was no bueno!
Ckyle7- Admin
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- Post n°32
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Yay, thank you! Ohh nice drop, what was that liquid gold you just gave me!? (That smile has a beer moustache attached haha).
Arcea-Drakkarre- Posts : 314
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- Post n°33
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*giggles!*Excellent!! Beer is so fantastic.
Ckyle7- Admin
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- Post n°34
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*Smiles widely* don't have to convince me! Now, I'll just pour you a drop to return the favour!
Arcea-Drakkarre- Posts : 314
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- Post n°35
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Why thank you, madame!
shadowsiren- Posts : 24
Join date : 2013-08-27
Location : Arkansas
- Post n°36
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Very small whine in the scheme of things but I figured I could whine safely here.
My baby is having a bad week because he is teething.
My oldest is having a bad week because he is feeling a bit neglected from me having to focus on the crying teething monster.
My middle is going to be a hysterical mess in 3...2...1... because he woke up early and refused to take a nap (how he didn't just fall asleep I'm not sure... that kid was nodding off while eating his lunch...)
And I've got the beginnings of a head cold from god-knows-where (seriously, I haven't gone anywhere this week or been around anyone that is sick! Where did it come from?!?!?!)... Apparently my body has forgotten the cardinal rule of "Mommy can't get sick".
*headdesk*
My baby is having a bad week because he is teething.
My oldest is having a bad week because he is feeling a bit neglected from me having to focus on the crying teething monster.
My middle is going to be a hysterical mess in 3...2...1... because he woke up early and refused to take a nap (how he didn't just fall asleep I'm not sure... that kid was nodding off while eating his lunch...)
And I've got the beginnings of a head cold from god-knows-where (seriously, I haven't gone anywhere this week or been around anyone that is sick! Where did it come from?!?!?!)... Apparently my body has forgotten the cardinal rule of "Mommy can't get sick".
*headdesk*
Tythus- Posts : 15
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- Post n°37
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I am sorry to hear that Shadowsiren. I know how hard it is to take care of a Child while being sick, but to take care of three..... well that is talent. I hope you feel better soon.
On another note, the damn eye speaker on my cell phone has stopped working, and for some reason the mic on it only works when it is on speaker phone..... fml. i cannot afford another phone right now.
On another note, the damn eye speaker on my cell phone has stopped working, and for some reason the mic on it only works when it is on speaker phone..... fml. i cannot afford another phone right now.
Gregoriouse The Great- Admin
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- Post n°38
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cell phones are a way of making your life worse while rubbing it in by making you think it will make it better.
I've been on the admin DL with a kidney stone the past few days... hope you've all behaved...
I've been on the admin DL with a kidney stone the past few days... hope you've all behaved...
Arcea-Drakkarre- Posts : 314
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- Post n°39
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Us? Behave? Which site do you think you admin, Greg?!
Gregoriouse The Great- Admin
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Oh you know us admins always being impartial and non-bias
locust- Posts : 310
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- Post n°41
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I think if it wasn't a Wednesday night id happily go out an get very very drunk....just cause I want too.... Pity I have to work in the morning...
RamothsRider- Posts : 23
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- Post n°42
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I have had a rough week and need a whinge!! Went out on Sunday and the car started playing up. Engine warning light coming on while driving bah humbug. Car drove ok so ok no probs right? No couldn't get car started again just kept stalling and stuff finally just put it in gear started it and let the clutch out and it finally started going yippee!! Got home already stressed to find washing machine full of water and so was the kitchen floor. Diagnosed dodgy drain pump. So now no washing machine a very dodgy car and stressed ramothsrider!!
locust- Posts : 310
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- Post n°43
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Ahhh jo my poor darling,car and house calling quits is never a good thing,hurts the bank balance a bit too...sorry hun all I got to offer is sympathetic hugs:RamothsRider wrote:I have had a rough week and need a whinge!! Went out on Sunday and the car started playing up. Engine warning light coming on while driving bah humbug. Car drove ok so ok no probs right? No couldn't get car started again just kept stalling and stuff finally just put it in gear started it and let the clutch out and it finally started going yippee!! Got home already stressed to find washing machine full of water and so was the kitchen floor. Diagnosed dodgy drain pump. So now no washing machine a very dodgy car and stressed ramothsrider!!
RamothsRider- Posts : 23
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- Post n°44
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Ah thanks ken... Have spoke to bruv in law who works on cars and its probably not terminal either dodgy sensor or fuel valve thingy which is sort of good ... Just need to find little man to fix washing machine now!! It always looks better after a beer and some thinking of who do I know
locust- Posts : 310
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- Post n°45
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RamothsRider wrote:Ah thanks ken... Have spoke to bruv in law who works on cars and its probably not terminal either dodgy sensor or fuel valve thingy which is sort of good ... Just need to find little man to fix washing machine now!! It always looks better after a beer and some thinking of who do I know
Hopefully it will be sorted soon enough huni
Mistress Cara- Posts : 166
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- Post n°46
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So i figured the only way to get something off my chest is to tell someone about it and get some advice. Since i have no one around me i can go to i hope you all may be able to help some.
Basically My husband and i had to move in with his parents. His dad is a jerk from hell and even if he does seomthing wrong it's always someone elses fault. He had been giving us hell for a while over stupid shit like he filled the trash and expects us to take it out everytime and stupid stuff like that.
Well we were getting yelled at for being there on Saturdays cause he says they dont get any private time, so we have been leaving in the morning and coming home around 9 so that gives them all day. Well we have 2 dogs and he had to put them on their chains outside and bring them in when it got dark. They were barking outside cause the neighbor was out there and they are watch dogs and dont like people around "their territory" lol. So when we got home saturday he started yelling about how the dogs were barking and how we need to be there to take care of them cause he isn't babysitting them and if we expect him to take them out we are going to pay him for it like it was a kennel.
During this argument my husband loses it and just starts going off....Come to find out my Father in law tried to bribe my husband with a classic car if he would divorce me. I've never ever in my life felt this unwanted and this hated before. Just thinking about it and typing it brings tears to my eyes. My husband made me smile tho when he looked his dad in the face and told him (excuse my language) to fuck off and how could he even suggest that he would leave the only girl he's ever loved for a fuckin car. Everone shut up after that and i haven't really talked to either of my inlaws since that happened.ive stayed in our room and read or played a game and had nothing to do with them.
My stress level right now is at a breaking point almost. I have no one to talk to and it just keeps building. I've had numerous anxiety attacks and it's not getting better. My husband can't work right now because of an injury to his back from a previous job he is looking to get disability. I can support us both with the job i have but it will be tight until we get some of our bills caught up/paid off. We pay $500 a month at my inlaws house right now and it isn't worth it but we have no where else to go.
What would yall do in this situation? If i backtalk his dad i get kicked out so i have to keep my mouth shut.
Thanks for the input when it comes in
Basically My husband and i had to move in with his parents. His dad is a jerk from hell and even if he does seomthing wrong it's always someone elses fault. He had been giving us hell for a while over stupid shit like he filled the trash and expects us to take it out everytime and stupid stuff like that.
Well we were getting yelled at for being there on Saturdays cause he says they dont get any private time, so we have been leaving in the morning and coming home around 9 so that gives them all day. Well we have 2 dogs and he had to put them on their chains outside and bring them in when it got dark. They were barking outside cause the neighbor was out there and they are watch dogs and dont like people around "their territory" lol. So when we got home saturday he started yelling about how the dogs were barking and how we need to be there to take care of them cause he isn't babysitting them and if we expect him to take them out we are going to pay him for it like it was a kennel.
During this argument my husband loses it and just starts going off....Come to find out my Father in law tried to bribe my husband with a classic car if he would divorce me. I've never ever in my life felt this unwanted and this hated before. Just thinking about it and typing it brings tears to my eyes. My husband made me smile tho when he looked his dad in the face and told him (excuse my language) to fuck off and how could he even suggest that he would leave the only girl he's ever loved for a fuckin car. Everone shut up after that and i haven't really talked to either of my inlaws since that happened.ive stayed in our room and read or played a game and had nothing to do with them.
My stress level right now is at a breaking point almost. I have no one to talk to and it just keeps building. I've had numerous anxiety attacks and it's not getting better. My husband can't work right now because of an injury to his back from a previous job he is looking to get disability. I can support us both with the job i have but it will be tight until we get some of our bills caught up/paid off. We pay $500 a month at my inlaws house right now and it isn't worth it but we have no where else to go.
What would yall do in this situation? If i backtalk his dad i get kicked out so i have to keep my mouth shut.
Thanks for the input when it comes in
Ckyle7- Admin
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- Post n°47
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That is an awful predicament and I can see why you feel unwanted and frustrated/upset. I don't think I have advice because I don't know your full story but I am assuming you have no close friends you can stay with for a while instead of his family and that you are quite stuck there. I can, however, point out a few observations.
Your husband is amazing. He utterly adores you (obviously). You are hard working, dedicated and caring (which is more than I can say for his parents, from what you say). You are probably already doing what's best by staying out of their way and trying not to agitate things further but this would cause frustration and a need to vent (hence this post, of course).
Keep talking with your husband and people who love and care for you. Surround yourself with positive and encouraging people (even if they are not physically there, ie, online) and remind yourself daily that you are a beautiful person. You don't deserve this treatment but you have to do what you have to do. Finally, remember, it won't always be like this and you will one day savour in the experience of leaving that place and telling his parents to eff off.
I hope that helps! Warmest of warm fuzzies, hugs and sincere kind thoughts for you, Mistress. You know where to find me, should you need a friend! <3
Your husband is amazing. He utterly adores you (obviously). You are hard working, dedicated and caring (which is more than I can say for his parents, from what you say). You are probably already doing what's best by staying out of their way and trying not to agitate things further but this would cause frustration and a need to vent (hence this post, of course).
Keep talking with your husband and people who love and care for you. Surround yourself with positive and encouraging people (even if they are not physically there, ie, online) and remind yourself daily that you are a beautiful person. You don't deserve this treatment but you have to do what you have to do. Finally, remember, it won't always be like this and you will one day savour in the experience of leaving that place and telling his parents to eff off.
I hope that helps! Warmest of warm fuzzies, hugs and sincere kind thoughts for you, Mistress. You know where to find me, should you need a friend! <3
Mistress Cara- Posts : 166
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Location : Roanoke va
- Post n°48
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Thank you! Good to know i have other people to go to that i can talk with. You made me feel better though with what you posted here. Ill keep you in mind if i need to talk to anyone about anything....thanks againCkyle7 wrote:That is an awful predicament and I can see why you feel unwanted and frustrated/upset. I don't think I have advice because I don't know your full story but I am assuming you have no close friends you can stay with for a while instead of his family and that you are quite stuck there. I can, however, point out a few observations.
Your husband is amazing. He utterly adores you (obviously). You are hard working, dedicated and caring (which is more than I can say for his parents, from what you say). You are probably already doing what's best by staying out of their way and trying not to agitate things further but this would cause frustration and a need to vent (hence this post, of course).
Keep talking with your husband and people who love and care for you. Surround yourself with positive and encouraging people (even if they are not physically there, ie, online) and remind yourself daily that you are a beautiful person. You don't deserve this treatment but you have to do what you have to do. Finally, remember, it won't always be like this and you will one day savour in the experience of leaving that place and telling his parents to eff off.
I hope that helps! Warmest of warm fuzzies, hugs and sincere kind thoughts for you, Mistress. You know where to find me, should you need a friend! <3
Ckyle7- Admin
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- Post n°49
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My pleasure, I am glad I helped somewhat....!
locust- Posts : 310
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Location : dublin Ireland
- Post n°50
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Think I will have a shot bartender please,anything U please,so long as it lets me sleep....